People like to say "Just be yourself", "Be real", or "You can be totally transparent with me", but 99% of the time, this is total bullshit. Here's why: To be one's True Self is to allow yourself to be unfiltered, wild, unpredictable, offensive, inappropriate, messy, impulsive, horny, volatile, emotional, sensitive, depressed, angry, dangerous, pensive, aloof, needy, ...
